Bhai Dooj 2023
The festival may be called by different names like Bhai phota, Bhai Tika, and Bhau Beej, but the reason behind Bhai Dooj remains the same. The festival is celebrated by brothers and sisters to strengthen their bond and to express their care and affection towards each other.
Auspicious Time for Bhai Dooj 2023
The festival is celebrated every year on the last day of the five-day-long Diwali festival, which according to the Hindu Lunar Calendar, falls on the second day of the Kartik Shukla Paksha tithi. Bhai Dooj 2021 will fall on the 6th of November (Saturday).
According to the tithi, the auspicious time on Bhai Dooj 2021 is between 13:14 to 15:32, during which the sister can apply the tika on her brother’s forehead.
History and Significance of Bhai Dooj
Like most traditional Indian festivals, Bhai Dooj also emphasizes the relationship between family members. This festival celebrates the unique bond between a brother and sister and the importance of siblings in one’s life.
As per legend, the God of Death, Yama, visited his sister Yami after a long time. She welcomed her brother by applying tilak on his forehead, a garland around his neck, and sumptuous food. After this, Yama is believed to have said that whoever visits his sister and receives tilak on this day will be blessed with good health, abundance, and long life. Thus the festival is also known as Yama Dwitiya.
It is also believed that everyone started celebrating Bhai Dooj after Subhadra, the sister of Lord Krishna, applied tilak on his forehead and welcomed him with sweets and flowers when he visited his sister after defeating Narakasura.
Rituals of the Festival
- The brother sits in front of the sister to receive the Bhai Dooj tilak. The sister first takes the plate with a lighted oil Diya, fruits, sweets, vermillion, and grains of raw rice and then circles the plate around the head of the brother and applies the tilak. She lastly finishes the ritual by feeding a sweet to her brother.
- The sister then serves the special food cooked for the special occasion to the brother.
- In the end, the brothers give gifts or money to the sisters.
Although Bhai Dooj is celebrated in most parts of India, it is one of the most important festivals in West Bengal. In Bengal, the festival is known as Bhai Phota, in which the sister puts the “phota” meaning “drop” of white sandalwood paste on the brother’s forehead with her left hand’s small finger.
In the northern part of Bengal, in and around the Darjeeling Hills, Bhai Tika, as it is called, is one of the important festivals after Dussehra and Diwali. Here, the tika is applied in five different colors. First, the sister applies a line of white rice powder paste, then two dots each of blue, red, and green over the white paste, and lastly, a shimmery silver powder. The unique thing seen in the ritual is that the sister takes a walnut and circles it around the head of the brother and then goes outside, cracks it open, and throws it over the rooftop. This ritual is done to ward off the evil eye.
Places to visit during the festival
Bhai dooj is a famous festival in north India celebrated with great enthusiasm. It is mainly celebrated in Madhya Pradesh, Rajasthan, Uttar Pradesh, West Bengal, Gujarat, and many more. To soak in the festive fervor of Bhai phota or Bhai Tika, visit:
The city of joy has much to offer than just the quintessential Rasogolla. Dotted with monuments and buildings influenced by colonial architecture, trams, and hand-pulled rickshaws, Kolkata exudes an old-world charm.
Things to Do in Kolkata
- Spend half a day at the Victoria Memorial Museum and then walk around the beautiful garden and lawn.
- The Birla Planetarium is next to Victoria Memorial, where you can see shows in the sky, the universe, and the celestial bodies.
- If you wish to visit the iconic confectionary Flury’s or go pub hunting, Park Street is the place.
- To receive information on paleontology, botany, zoology, microbiology, geography, and history, head to the largest museum in Asia, the Indian Museum.
- For spiritual bliss beside the River Hooghly, visit the Belur Math and Dakshineswar Temple.
- Lastly, take a tram ride and do not miss eating Kolkata’s street food.
How to Reach
Being one of the major metro cities in the world, Kolkata is accessible by flights, trains, taxis, and buses. redBus offers bus services to and from Siliguri, Mandarmani, Digha, Asansol, Durgapur, and Burdwan to or from Kolkata.
Known as the “Queen of Hills,” Darjeeling is a popular tourist destination among Indians and foreigners. Reminisces of being the summer capital of the British are still evident through the numerous colonial-style buildings.
Things to Do
- Since Darjeeling is known for its world-famous tea, a visit to the Happy Valley Tea Estate is a must.
- On a clear day, watching the sunrise from Tiger Hill and getting a picturesque view of the Kanchenjunga is worth every penny.
- Another highlight of the Darjeeling visit is a Toy Train ride to the Batasia Loop and back.
- A walk or a horse ride around the Mall area is an exciting experience not just for kids but for adults as well.
- No visit to Darjeeling is complete without an English breakfast at the iconic rooftop restaurant Keventers and evening tea with confectionery items at the famous confectionary Glenary’s. Also, do not forget to try out some steaming hot Thukpa and delicious Momos.
How to Reach
The nearest Railway Station is the New Jalpaiguri Railway Station, and the nearest Airport the Bagdogra Airport in Siliguri. There are also frequent bus services offered by redBus from Kolkata to Siliguri.
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